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Counseling Adolescents

I work with teens, families, and parents navigating the teen years.  Sometimes together, sometimes separately. 


Therapy for Teens.  Individual therapy for adolescents to explore what's happening in their own world, at their own pace, with someone who won't report back to their parents unless safety requires it. (see below)


Family Therapy.  Sessions where the whole family meets together to work through what's happening between you, whether that's communication that's broken down, a specific conflict, or a transition the family is adjusting to.


Parent Support Therapy.  A space for parents to process the stress, fear, and exhaustion that can come with raising a struggling adolescent, with guidance informed by years of working directly with teens. 

When you are worried your teenager is heading down the wrong path

Parenting a teen can feel overwhelming and confusing, even for the most loving and thoughtful parents.  For more than 20 years, I’ve helped families who feel overwhelmed by school, friendships, the future, and growing up in today’s complicated world.  


I've helped parents understand what is happening in the teen years and find ways to remain connected during this turbulent time.


Whether your teen has hit a wall or is struggling with anxiety, depression, self-harm, or risky behavior, I can help your family find a way forward.

Do you do family therapy?

Yes, I do.  As children grow up, family dynamics shift.  Family therapy gives everyone room to speak up and helps you find better ways to talk and understand each other. 

What about my 20-something?

Adolescence doesn’t magically end after high school. Many college-age young adults feel lost for a while. If your 20-something is struggling or feeling stuck, therapy can help.


Today's young adults feel like they’re supposed to have everything figured out by now. Instead they feel overwhelmed or frozen. Some move back home, aren’t working, and aren’t sure what comes next.


What they’re often dealing with is a huge Life Transition. Therapy can give them space to sort through the pressure, figure out who they are, and take the next step forward.

How does it work?

Most teens and young adults benefit from both practical coping tools and a space to talk things through.


Some want help learning specific ways to handle stress, relationships, or big decisions. Others need a place to sort through the thoughts and feelings that have been building up.


We work at their pace to find what actually helps them move forward.

Online or In-Person?

Most middle school and high school teens tend to open up more in person, so I usually recommend meeting in the office.  That said, every teen is different. If your teen prefers to meet online, we can try it and see how it works for them.


People who are college-aged and older do well either online or in person, so we can go with what feels most comfortable for them.

What do you share with parents?

When working with teens, I share assessments, general updates, safety concerns, and ways parents can support their teen's progress.  Most of what teens say in therapy stays private. That privacy helps them open up and get more out of therapy. 


For young adults, the confidentiality laws are different, and I share what they allow that feels supportive to their therapy, which usually is not very much.

What if my teen doesn't want to come?

Some teens are hesitant at first. After a few sessions, many realize it helps to have a place where they can talk about what’s weighing on them.


Most teens know after the first meeting whether they feel comfortable with me. If it doesn’t feel like a good fit, we can talk about that too.


Alternatively, I've helped many families by working only with the parents, and love to support parents in helping their teens in Parent Support Therapy.  Parent Support Therapy gives you a space that's entirely your own.  No need for your teen's buy-in or participation. 


Curious whether Teen Therapy or Parent Support Therapy is the better fit? Feel free to reach out and we can figure it out together.

How to Talk to Your Teen About Counseling

Father and teen son

More teens are open to counseling than in the past, which is great. But many teens still won’t ask for help themselves. Instead, parents notice changes first: more arguing, mood swings, isolation, falling grades, or big shifts in friends and interests.


When parents suggest therapy, teens often hear something different from what parents mean. Many assume it means, “You think I’m crazy,” or “You think I’m a bad kid.”


It helps to address that directly:  “We don’t think you’re crazy or a bad kid. We just see that you’re hurting, and we don’t know how to help on our own.” 


If you’re talking with your teen about counseling, a few things can make the conversation easier.

  1. Be honest.
    Don’t surprise your teen with therapy. If they feel tricked into it, they’ll likely show up angry and shut down.
  2. Share your concerns.
    Let them know what you’ve been noticing and why you’re worried. “We’ve been fighting a lot lately and I don’t want us stuck in that pattern. I think talking with a counselor could help.” 
  3. Try the four-session deal.
    If your teen is resistant, ask them to try four sessions before deciding whether to continue. The first session is often about their frustration or hesitation about being there. Real conversations usually start after that. 
  4. Safety comes first.
    If there are concerns about self-harm, suicidal thinking, substance use, or other serious risks, therapy shouldn’t be optional. 
  5. Expect some pushback.
    Even if you approach this thoughtfully, your teen may still be upset. Sometimes anger is easier than admitting they feel overwhelmed.


What matters most is the message underneath your actions:

“Your pain matters, and I’m not going to ignore it.”

Are you a teenager?

Curious how talking to a therapist actually works?  

Find out here

What's the next step?

Reach out through the contact form and share a little about what’s going on for you right now. We’ll set up a free 15–20 minute call to get a feel for things and see if working together makes sense. 

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